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posted by [personal profile] palfrey at 11:08pm on 23/02/2004
I got horrifcally stressed about things over the weekend (discovering the module that I had been failing to turn up to turns out to have a "3 strikes and you're out" policy to non-attendance, and that this is my second module to slip, combined with a non-wish to talk to Koen about this, and a complete lack of social life i.e. stress relief in recent times). I actually got as far as calling my parents. Ok, they've always said that I can always call them at any time, or ask them for anything. And I've always believed that, but I've never taken advantage of it. I tend to prefer friends over family, but now there isn't anyone here I can really talk to about this, and I needed another voice to talk to, not just text chats. I told them all about my stress, was practically crying at various points, and I resolved to talk to Koen, which I've done. We've re-arranged my MSc timetable somewhat, and I'm less stressed. I can now focus on just the PhD work for the rest of this quarter (until beginning of April). I think I'm going to go home for about 2 weeks or so over Easter, just get me away for a while, take a complete break. Veg out, watch TV, read, walk around Ealing a bit, see London again. Explore the bits of central that I've wanted to for a while. Take the camera, go tourist for a bit.

I brought quite a lot of this on myself (well, at a basic level because I accepted this mad program to start with), but I'm working through it. It's a bit hellish, but copeable. I'm definately going to AEGEE thing on Wed, need the social interaction. Have finished watching Voyager S1, it's methadone to DS9's heroin, but it's still good. Got a few enterprise eps queued up to watch, but it's not a patch on even Voyager. Damnit. I want my proper Startrek (or another series of Firefly, or S4 DVD's of B5).
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posted by [identity profile] raygungothic.livejournal.com at 05:44am on 24/02/2004
Needing another voice: I do know what you mean, and though I'm not exactly great at being supportive, if ever you want me to give you a ring, let me know.

I'm not returning to London over Easter, but if you say when you're around, I'll day-trip it down there to see you.

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posted by [identity profile] palfrey.livejournal.com at 12:52pm on 24/02/2004
Thanks, but one of the problems is that I'm missing Bristol, and so seeing everyone from there is kinda a bad idea until I'm properly grounded first. Some time stomping around London should help with that. I'm vaguely intending to visit bris at some point towards the end of my break, so will try and announce suitably to try and see people there.
 
posted by [identity profile] invisigoth51.livejournal.com at 07:05am on 24/02/2004
Of course you can come visit us lot here in Bristol! My flatmates are around so you'd have to find somewhere to crash... but that's easilly done.
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posted by [identity profile] palfrey.livejournal.com at 12:41pm on 24/02/2004
Well if you're gonna ask like *that*, with the glasses and everything, I will of course *have* to come to Bristol ASAP now.
 
posted by [identity profile] chalkcircle.livejournal.com at 10:37am on 25/02/2004
I'm unclear from Kate's comment if she has crash space or not, if not I do depending on how close to my exams you are in Bristol. If you don't come to Bristol, let me know when you are in London and I'll trek up for the day.
 
posted by [identity profile] invisigoth51.livejournal.com at 03:02pm on 25/02/2004
I meant that i didn't... but now i might.... but will be studying..... so not sure.
Do i know 'Chalkcircle' then? didn't think i did but you appear to know my real name... tho u could've guessed who i was without difficulty i spose.... who are you IRL?Anyway.... Palfrey if u can find no where to crash i can always find u floor space.... but i'll be boring and working i'm afraid.
 
posted by [identity profile] invisigoth51.livejournal.com at 03:06pm on 25/02/2004
From your profile..... my best guess is our beloved ex-scifi prez........ am i close?
 
posted by [identity profile] chalkcircle.livejournal.com at 06:28am on 27/02/2004
Yes, you're right. I just saw the picture and thought Kate and didn't even bother looking at the username to use that instead.
 
posted by [identity profile] amicu.livejournal.com at 01:35am on 26/02/2004
'you could have guessed who I was without difficulty I spose' ... you do have a flipping half-length portrait as your icon, girl!
 
posted by [identity profile] invisigoth51.livejournal.com at 07:43am on 27/02/2004
Photo is only useful if i know the person in real life..... if i am but a mystical online figure to them... that's quite a feat.
 
Hi there -- you just joined my friends list, maybe via [livejournal.com profile] marlo, whom we have in common as a friend(?), so I thought I'd say hi. At the moment my computer is acting way wonky (not to be confused with "Willy Wonka"), so I'll keep this short in case it fries altogether, but I just wanted to say hello, and welcome, AND -- are you really HONESTLY in Delft? If so, I am SO JEALOUS!!! That's where "Girl With a Pearl Earring" was supposed to have taken place (aka, where Vermeer lived), and when I saw that film, all I wanted to do in the whole world was pack a bag and move to the Netherlands, I was so, so entranced with how beautiful it was. Of course, I'd technically have to move to Delft in 1665, which is difficult to do, what with the shortage of nonstop flights to four centuries ago and all, but still. :-) Toodles!
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posted by [identity profile] palfrey.livejournal.com at 09:15am on 25/02/2004
Yup, that was via [livejournal.com profile] marlo. I've always felt the friends list is something of a misnomer - it's people I want to listen to. Some are friends, some I'd like to be friends, some I go completely fanboy (http://www.livejournal.com/users/palfrey/20537.html) if they ever acknowledge my existence.

I'm honestly in Delft (well, technically ATM I'm in Den Haag, but I live in Delft, which is nearby). It's slightly less romantic when you get there. Nowadays it's a small-townlet (~96K ppl, small by my standards) dominated by the technical university at which I currently work and study (that and selling Delft Blue pottery to tourists). It still however has a lot of the old bits and pieces, and apparently at least one part of the skyline is still pretty much identical to the picture of it Vermeer once painted.

I really should get around to watching "Girl with a Pearl Earring" then. Might be interesting to see if they actually filmed any of it around here...

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